LIFESTYLE - Putus cinta? itulah risiko yang harus kita hadapi jika kita pacaran. Karena saat kita pacaran, disitulah kita saling mengenal satu sama lain dan jika tidak ada kecocokan harus mengakhiri hubungan, apalagi kita masih sayang dengan pasangan kita secara tiba-tiba, dia mutusin kita begitu saja tanpa ada kejelasan, atau dengan terpaksa kita memutuskan hubungan karena ada masalah yang membuat kita memang harus memutuskan hubungan dengan dia, atau dia selingkuh dan masih banyak lagi alasan bisa terputusnya hubungan dan harus merasakan sakitnya putus cinta. Dan kalau sedang merasakan putus cinta, rasanya kita orang yang paling sedih di dunia ini. Tapi tenang, inilah tips buat kalian yang lagi merasakan putus cinta dan pingin banget move on dari dia.
1. Stop stalking medsos tentang mantan
For example, stalking Facebook, Instagram, Path former. The more we stalking increasingly difficult for us to forget the former, especially if he has a new partner, and if we look at the status of the former, I think we will be the sad and shocked. If we need to erase medsos former so that we do not kepoin former continues.
2. Brood
Pondering here as self-correction. During our courtship with him carrying a positive or negative impact to us? Sometimes we need to be self-critical, let the time to reconnect, we can be more careful.
3. Think of parents and families
Only our parents who understand all of our personal problems. They would never harm our children. Instead we daily recall painful memories of the former, it is better we think about how to make our parents proud, rather than thinking about the former are not necessarily thinking about us. Because our parents all the time is always praying for us.
4. Have a plan for the future
Busied themselves with and have an activity that is good for our future this could be an alternative for can move on from the former. Instead we are saddened every day and make our time is wasted the better we make our future plans. As communities come bicycles, balls, or writing contest.
5. Storytelling at a friend
By sharing problems with friends, we can ease the burden of our problems, and friends can also provide a solution to our problem. But be careful so, select a friend for vent can we believe ya.
6. Traveling
Traveling can also be tips for you who want to move on from the former. Can make the heart more happy and we could see social life in our environment, that we are not just thinking about him, but our other fellow also needs attention as well of us, and we can be grateful for what God has given us.
7. Pray
Well, this is the most powerful in my opinion, is to pray. Through prayer, we can be at peace, and can eliminate resentment, anger, hate, we are with the former. We can forgive our former slowly and may God break our hearts because he is probably not the best for us and the Lord had prepared the right person for us. By praying, we draw closer to God and God's plan it will be beautiful in its time.
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